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father of the bride has some very clear duties to perform on the wedding
day.
He travels with the bride to the wedding and walks by her side down
the aisle with her arm linked in his.
After he has safely delivered his daughter to the side of her husband
to be, he retires to the front row of the pews if the wedding is held
in church.
The symbolism of the father's duties on the day is very clear and not
a little poignant. His girl is becoming a woman and he is passing responsibility
for her to another.
He and the mother of the bride are the official hosts of the wedding
reception and it is his duty to greet the guests at the reception and
to thank everyone for coming. His is the first speech to be made after
the meal.
During and after the reception he should mix with the guests, making
introductions and making sure that everyone is involved and that no-one's
glass is empty for long.
The father of the bride traditionally cuts in on the groom during the
couple's first dance, after which he cuts in on the groom who begins
to dance with the bride's mother. After that he cuts in on the groom
again after which both men dance with their respective wives.
As the official host of the wedding reception, he is expected to bid
farewell to the departing guests and is traditionally the last person
to leave the reception.
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